The Grampians Health event posed the question – Are Men from Mars and Women from Venus, or is that just an excuse?
Although stormy weather quashed plans for a smoke machine and disco lighting, social worker June Spencer (AKA ‘Judge Junie’) forged ahead with battery-operated spotlights.
“It actually created a really nice atmosphere, where people sat close together and connected at their tables,” Ms Spencer said.
“I overheard a lot of conversations about relationships and gender roles and societal change, which was absolutely our hope for the night.
“The debate aside, it was wonderful to get people out of the house to socialise and have a laugh.”
Amid arguments about evolution, the effects of World Wars and women’s reproductive skills, opposing speakers competed in a chin-up challenge and distributed bribes to the audience.
Neither side was convincing enough to sway the crowd, with teams receiving an equal number of votes.
Ms Spencer, who donned a judge’s wig and struggled to keep proceedings in line with her gavel, embraced the humour.
“It was a very funny exploration of some very serious topics, which is what we need sometimes,” she said.
“We were never going to put an end to this age-old debate, but I think everyone left with some new insight to reflect on.”
The event also presented an opportunity to promote local services, including Grampians Health Edenhope’s social worker and free Rural Outreach mental health services.
“The reality is, relationship conflict has a devastating effect on people and we are here to assist,” Ms Spencer said.
Grampians Health thanks the Edenhope Lions Club for sponsoring venue hire and supper; and to Edenhope Golf Club volunteers for friendly service in difficult conditions.
Audience feedback:
“It was a thought-provoking look at men and women and our relationships, making us question some of those things we accept as normal” – Cath McDonald
“I don’t go out at night, but I made an exception for this and I’ve been talking about it ever since” – Merilyn Simpson
“The discussion brought Edenhope out of the 1960s and into the 21st century; and it’s about time we got there.” – ‘Anonymous 80-year-old man’
“We all needed a good laugh and we got It, which was just the best thing” – Toni Cormack
For more information about social worker and Rural Outreach services, contact the HUB: 5585 9830.
Grampians Health Edenhope is a one-stop shop for health care in the surrounding community and provides a range of on-site services or hosts visiting services. The aim is to provide as many services in the community as possible to minimise the amount of travel that people need to undertake to stay healthy.
Grampians Health acknowledges the Traditional Custodians of the lands on which we operate, the Wadawurrung, Djab wurrung, Wotjobaluk, Jaadwa, Jadawadjali, Wergaia and Jupagulk peoples, and their connections to land, waterways and community. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend this to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples today. Grampians Health recognises and values the contributions that Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples make in our society. Sovereignty has never been ceded. It always was and always will be, Aboriginal land.
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